The ring… it’s always such an important part of the engagement. It symbolizes your never ending love and it’s the first thing anyone wants to see when they hear the news.
We made a compromise on the ring. I kind of wanted a surprise and he wanted to make sure it was something I would love. According to him, since he made me wait so long I should have exactly what I wanted.
I started looking and was unimpressed by the standard engagement solitaire. I also disliked the “newer” style with a center stone and tons of diamonds all around it. My problem was I wanted the band to be special and not just a simple thing with the stone being the primary focus. I also am not really fond of diamonds. To me they are too cliche` I wanted something special. I felt (and still do) that we have something special so the ring should signify that.
I started looking into filigree rings. The problem was a lot of them were either really tall which I thought might cause a problem or they look as if they had been casted a million times. Again not very special. It took me probably a year and a half from the time he told me to start looking until I finally found one I have. I had found a couple that I liked, he wasn’t very fond of them and told me to keep looking around. While I was looking we also started ordering different sizes and styles of lab created gemstones. I had already stated I did not want to spend a fortune on this ring and to be honest I like the way the lab created gemstones sparkle. They don’t have the imperfections the mined gems have and they cost a fraction of the cost and have the exact same chemical make up of the ones from the ground.
There was one I liked pictured below, but decided it was not for me. Though I still love the design and symbolism of the tree of life.
I finally found a website of custom jewelry out of Austin, Texas. I fell in love with two rings. One was based off of Van Goh’s Starry Nights painting, the other was titled Garden Gate (pictured below).
I gave him the option of four different rings in varing price ranges to choose from and he took multiple gemstones out of our collection and hid them so I wouldn’t know what I got. He ended up picking my favorite, though I tried not to tell him which that was, the Garden Gate pictured above. Though mine looks very different from the one above. We placed a green stone in the ring and took out some of the diamonds around the band. The ring is absolutely stunning and a year later people are still asking too look at it and I get plenty of compliments on it.